Triggers
Trigger words... or trigger phrases - things that said by the right voice, in the right tone, in just the right moment can make me cream - absolutely melt, push me right over the edge, leave me shaking shuddering gasping.
It's the association I have with these words and phrases that give them power. The association implies a certain dynamic. They didn't arrive all at once. I'm not even sure when they all started, they've evolved over time. I can pin-point some of them to a place in time or a person. They're all linked to a common theme, but different people or situations have hard wired them into my sexuality. Conditioned response maybe?
Standing alone they may mean something entirely different - or have no significant meaning at all. But in my nasty slutty little mind they evoke an intense reaction - the queen mother of sexual tools in the right hands - someone who knows just when to say them, or what inflection to use.
And... I'm noticing I'm much less able to hide my reaction now than I used to be - so sometimes someone might not even know in advance, but damned if my response doesn't totally give me away!
I know we all have sexual buttons, things that 'do it' for us, but I do find myself wondering if other people have the same intense reaction to triggers and if staying composed is challenging for others too.
It's the association I have with these words and phrases that give them power. The association implies a certain dynamic. They didn't arrive all at once. I'm not even sure when they all started, they've evolved over time. I can pin-point some of them to a place in time or a person. They're all linked to a common theme, but different people or situations have hard wired them into my sexuality. Conditioned response maybe?
Standing alone they may mean something entirely different - or have no significant meaning at all. But in my nasty slutty little mind they evoke an intense reaction - the queen mother of sexual tools in the right hands - someone who knows just when to say them, or what inflection to use.
And... I'm noticing I'm much less able to hide my reaction now than I used to be - so sometimes someone might not even know in advance, but damned if my response doesn't totally give me away!
I know we all have sexual buttons, things that 'do it' for us, but I do find myself wondering if other people have the same intense reaction to triggers and if staying composed is challenging for others too.
posted by MysticSpirit (Sass) at 3:29 PM
4 Comments:
I think men are more about something they see doing it for them and women are more about what is said.
I have lots, aural, visual........triggers.....would make a good post listing them.
I love having my finger on the trigger.
I absolutely have them Smells have to be highest on my list..
gonna share some of those triggers?
and what about that nasty slutty little mind?
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